Dulce Halerz
How has motherhood changed for you from your first child to now expecting your fifth??
Dulce: When I had my first child, I was just 16. Now, at 30, I can honestly say I have the experience to know what’s ahead. This time, I feel truly prepared and surrounded by support—something I didn’t have when I became a mother for the first time.
What’s something you know now that you wish you’d known as a first-time mom?you think will be different about the world when you are an adult?
Dulce: Embrace every moment, and remember that motherhood does get easier.
How do you think your parenting style has evolved over the years?
Dulce: I’ve learned to serve my children without expecting anything in return. I’ve grown from being a depressed mother, to one who has found the true meaning of parenting. The joy my children bring has shaped me into the parent I am today, and knowing that God has placed me here to serve them is my greatest reward.
What’s the biggest lesson your kids have taught you about life or parenting?
Dulce: They love me no matter what they love me when I’m tired, overwhelmed, or overstimulated. To them, I am their world. They’ve taught me that their love is infinite and the purest love a woman can experience.
What’s it like managing the needs of children at different ages and stages?
Dulce: Honestly, I don’t even know how to answer this question—half the time, I’m not sure how I manage their needs. Somehow, I just get it done every day.
How did your kids react to the news that a new sibling is on the way?
Dulce: My kids were overjoyed—especially my 14-year-old daughter. She’s the only girl among three boys, and she really needed her sister. My boys often ask when their baby sister is coming; they’re all so excited to meet her.
How has this pregnancy compared to your previous ones — easier, harder, different?
Dulce: This pregnancy is different. I feel like I am always so busy. I am also a college student, which adds more work to my life. But having a supportive husband and faith has helped me cope with this pregnancy and just live day by day, receiving whatever comes with joy and thanksgiving.
